Manya: I'm going to give you a few heads up, and you can take them and think about them or ignore them or attempt to refute them as you wish.

1. The reason you are catching flack from other JUers is because it is fairly obvious that you are lying or exaggerating about yourself. JU doesn't take kindly to bloggers who play on others' emotions by creating a false persona(s) and making up events. Guys (and maybe girls, too), as you have noticed, are excited by the idea of reading about a girl masturbating. However, you betrayed their trust by posting a photo of a well-known porn star and claiming it was you. Now they are afraid to get excited about your writing because they think you could be a dude. Here are some things I personally question:

* You first posted a photo of someone else and claimed it was you. You changed the photo to a snapshot of someone else entirely. Your lie makes everything you post suspect. Why should I believe that the second photo is of you? Also, people typically post normal photos of themselves doing normal things . . . hanging out with friends, holding their sister's baby, etc. If you had several photos of you in some normal context, I might be more inclined to believe you.


* I instinctively doubt the claims of other bloggers (you included) who claim to be models or pop stars, etc. It screams "give me attention!" Additionally, if you WERE a model, you would have tons of photos from your work that you could post, and you have stated that it would take great effort on your part to post another photo.


*You manage to throw sex, masturbation, your desire to be in porn, and modeling into every post you make. This seems odd. Are you not a well-rounded person with thoughts and dreams and fears, or does your life revolve around playing with yourself?


*The way you describe masturbation is a bit suspect to me. I won't go into explicit detail, but it seems that you are describing what a guy thinks a girl masturbating would be like.

Those are my doubts. You can challenge them, or you can let them stand.

2. We're not a bunch of prudes around here, and you are absolutely not the first to write a steamy sexual blog. We have some very talented bloggers here that write sexy things that would make your face melt. They typically post those items under "Art," and they label those blogs adult content. These bloggers are real people who write about a myriad of things, not just about touching themselves.

3. You are not nearly the first blogger to have another blogger dedicate an article to them. Don't let that excite you too much, sweetie.

4. The people who blog at JU are very friendly and quite forgiving. If you fess up, you will likely be welcomed with open arms. If you continue what you are doing, people will still read out of morbid curiosity, but very few will likely give you the ego boost of actually commenting. No one ('cept the admins) can tell you what (or what not) to write about, and you can continue in this vein until the end of time if you wish, but I think you'll find that you'll have a much more satisfying blogging experience if you practice a bit of honesty in your blogs. Best wishes.

phew...u guys never seem to get tired of this...do u?? well lemme answer both the above comments one by one and hopefully get rid of all this silly talk once and for all....

someone said that i would be losing comments and page views by posting my feelings...well, first of all, i dont seem to have lost any page views or comments...i get enough comments and page views to keep me occupied through the day and i can give u statistics to support that...even if it does happen as u have said, i really dont care...i am not in here to get comments or to increase my page views..i dont write for that...i wriote what i feel like...if someone wants to read and appreciate that, then great.....i would continue to write in here even if a single person does not read it....i write it cos i want to...and also, i write it in my blog, not urs, right??so what is ur problem??

second, u both have posted completely irrelevant comments to the article for which u have posted comments....now tell me, what is the connection between ur comments and the article posted?? that shows how idiotic and childish u r...

as for the pics, well those are mine and i changed it cos a few thought it was not mine as the pic was not clear...so i posted a much clearer pic of mine...if u still wanna think that it is of someone else, i cant help it...i cant help what u think...right?? i dont have the necessity nor the patience to prove my innocence to anyone least of all, u....

well, if u would so like, i can post lot of my modelling pics, shall i?? if i post those, there would be claims that i downloaded pics from net and posted it...thats why i posted pics of myself in normal attire and not my modelling pics....and i have very few of my normal pics with me cos i send my pics to my parents....and my parents are not very net-savvy and so i cant send them soft copies and hence i send only hard copies of my pics....and i dont have the necessity to go out, get another print, scan it and post it in here just to prove some dumb-witted fellows as wrong....

if u had read all my articles, u would have seen that i have posted many articles other than those abt masturbation and sex....ur mind is probably so screwed up that u read only my adult articles....how come u did not reply to many of my articles on other topics??

as for masturbation, thats what i feel when i masturbate and thats what i wrote...if u feel something else while masturbating, u r most welcome to post it....

both of u could spend ur time in writing useful articles for fellow bloggers rather than wasting ur time with such silly comments...

as for my idea abt JU, little_whip did not understand what i was talking abt and he shouts his mouth off without understanding it....first of all, google adsense does not post porn ads....and it does not have pop-ups...thats why i asked how it would be to submit non-adult articles....cos adult pages are not accepted in google...and the colorful ads which i was talking abt referred to the normal ads which u see in many sites....

it was just an idea which i posted...if u liked it, u say so...if u dont like it, u say so with reason....that does not mean that u could launch a personal tirade against the person....and the fact that u have done it without understanding what i have posted showed how dumb-witted u r....i refrain myself from calling u other names as i would like to maintain decency when talking to others.....if u have seen my articles and comments, i have not launched any personal attacks on anyone and have maintained decency when dealing with others....

so this is the final time...if i see such comments again from both of u, i will delete ur comments, and block u guys....i want everyone to read my blog but this is just a waste of everyones time...especially my well-wishers of which there are many....i can use this time to post some good articles rather than waste so much of my time for 2 dumb witted persons....

that shows how idiotic and childish u r...

Oh I know, you did NOT just call Little Whip and Texas
Wahine Childish!!!

*cashes in her bank account and runs to an undisclosed underground location much like the one Saddam hid himself in*

i refrain myself from calling u other names as i would like to maintain decency when talking to others

Manya: here is a list of 'names' you have called in your recent comment:
1. silly
2. idiotic
3. childish
4. dumb-witted fellows
5. screwed up
6. silly (again)
7. dumb-witted (again)
8. dumb witted(again, you seem to like that term)

Oh, another thing,

little_whip did not understand what i was talking abt and he shouts his mouth off without understanding it

little_whip is not a 'he' but a 'she'.

both of u could spend ur time in writing useful articles for fellow bloggers rather than wasting ur time with such silly comments...

These two(TW and LW) are wonderful bloggers at JU. I've been around at JU for a while and I know.
You may read their articles to check for yourself.


*wears his flak jacket, picks up some canned food and water bottle and runs to an undisclosed underground location much like the one wuxiaomao is in*

olikara

Hey LW: You beat me to the post!!

olikara

A few comments re: Maturbate-gate:

-She doesn't look *that* much like Aria Giovanni in either photo and a ten second google search would confirm that.
-Aria's boobs aren't that big.
-Technically, Aria G. is a nude model, not a porn star. She never poses with men, though there are a few girl on girl kissy-kissy pics on her site.
-Her pics are often featured in the 'boobies' section of fark.com and other mainstream sites, which makes me somewhat less of a perv for knowing all of this about her
-Aria G. is ssssssssssssssssssmokin' hot.
-Our new friend Manya is smokin' hot too. She's easily attractive enough to be a model in my eyes.
-The original pic in question was kind of crappy and unglamorous, with her hair pulled back and she's squinting in the sun. Her second pic is very unpornstar-like too. There are many better pics she could've lifted off the net.
-Manya has restricted access to her masturbation articles to registered JoeUsers; as an 'anonymous' user I haven't seen them and can't comment on how authentic they sound
-I've met other similarly sex-crazed women from her part of the world. My theory is that female sexuality is repressed by their culture to the point that the tension builds and that's all they can think about. That might explain the potty mouth.
-Her writing style seems ultra-feminine to me; I just don't think a guy could fake it that well.
-She's new here and comes from a very different culture. A friendly note explaining that masturbation articles are outside the boundaries of societal norms (both here at JoeU and most cultures) would've sufficed.

Manya my dear, I'd like to echo the sentiment that if your main interest is talking dirty then there are better places on the internet to do so. Keep it clean and I think things will be fine for you here.

Cheers,
Dave

Masturbate -Gate...

well, i dont care one bit if little_whip is a guy or gal....i called little_whip as dumb, half-witted etc. cos she provoked me into it....i did not say anything abt little_whip until she posted her comment....so what was the need for the unprovoked personal tirade from little_whip??

and as Dave pointed out, if i wanted to show myself to be very beautiful, there are thousands of glamorous, well made up pics on the net which i could have posted....anyway , u people would not understand and i give up trying to make u people understand....

i am going to write what i want to...those who want can read it, those who dont want, need not....

If you want to make money of your blog, you should go and build your own site. Any ad revenue that happens goes to Brad and Stardock -- you know, the people who spend time keeping this site alive. By them getting any sort of revenue like that it allows us to blog here free. We don't have to spend time coding the site, maintaining the site, moderating the site, et cetra -- all we have to do is write our articles. JU is very cool because they don't use pop ups or any of the more intrusive advertising so common on many sites.

Cheers.

agreed myr.....just my thought was something like sharing the ad revenue.....they get the share for maintaining the site while we get the share for blogging in here and also bringing in people to read the blogs.....anyway, it was just a thought......

I guess I just feel like Brad and his staff should get all the ad revenue. They do all the hard work, I just post what I feel.